Getting On Better

Behaviours

Do you recognise any of these behaviours? 

Provoking your child's other parent

If you add to the other parent's stress or anxiety, it can have a direct impact on your child. A parent feeling overwhelmed will struggle to meet their child's needs. 

Competing to be the favourite parent

Most children just want their parents' time and attention. Competing with your child's other parent can pull focus away from doing what is best for your child.

Badmouthing your child's other parent

When one parent badmouths the other, your child can feel forced to choose sides. As a result, they may avoid telling you about problems to do with their other parent.

Not letting your child talk about the other parent

It can be painful to hear your child talk about their other parent. But if children think what they're saying is upsetting you, they will start to censor themselves around you.